Safe & Sound Protocol
Coaching, Consultations & Advanced SSP Training

Turn to the provider that providers turn to...

Healing happens when we listen to what our body knows. With SSP, RRP, Brainspotting, Somatic Experiencing & intuition, I help both clients and providers find clarity, calm, and flow.

Welcome — I’m so glad you found me.

I’m Carol Ann Brayley, MSW, RSW, SEP — a Canadian neurodivergent psychotherapist and Somatic Experiencing® Practitioner with over 30 years of clinical experience. I specialize in helping neurodiverse families and highly sensitive, complex individuals become more regulated, feel safer in the world, and able to fully embrace their gifts—with fewer meltdowns and more connection.

I’m fully certified by Unyte in the Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP), Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP), and iLs Focus, and I’m an officially approved Unyte Mentor for other providers.

In the summer of 2024, I was deeply honoured to support Dr. Stephen Porges, Anthony Gorry, and Unyte in the pilot study for the brand-new Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP)

Whether you’re:


     •     Seeking SSP or RRP for yourself or your child,
     •     Already working with a provider but want extra support or a second opinion,
     •     Or you’re a provider yourself seeking consultation, advanced guidance, or tools to enhance your practice…

I’m here to help.

Why work with me?

With SSP or RRP, the provider you choose really matters. These protocols aren’t one-size-fits-all. I’m known for helping even the most sensitive, complex, or misunderstood clients. In fact, Unyte has often referred both clients and providers to me when things feel too complex, when someone needs advanced support, or when things have gone wrong with a different provider.  I was incredibly honoured the summer of 2023 when I received a referral from Dr. Stephen Porges, himself. 

I’ve helped several hundred people - from 2-78 years old - experience life-changing results with SSP — including those for whom SSP previously didn’t work or even made things worse.

Along the way, I’ve made some unique discoveries that are now helping other providers and clients worldwide, including:

     •     The Mini Reset – a simple but powerful way to quickly settle dysregulation, often in real time
     •     The ability to microdose SSP – delivering it in extremely small, gentle increments for those with extreme sensitivity or complex histories

Too often, SSP is delivered too quickly, especially by providers who haven’t worked with complex systems.

When SSP is titrated gently and responsively, SSP becomes far more effective, more regulating, and far less overwhelming — even for those with extensive trauma or health concerns.

My work has been featured by Unyte:

     •     November 2022 – Featured SSP provider in a live Unyte-iLs webinar on offering SSP safely and gently to complex clients
     •     September 2024 – Provider Spotlight speaker for the free recorded Unyte webinar: How Anxiety Manifests in the Nervous System
     •     October 2024 – Invited expert panelist at a live event in Toronto, interviewed by Jan Winhall, a leading voice in trauma and nervous system work.

I have been interviewed on The Spiritually Curious Therapist about my work and have been featured on The Elevated Life Academy podcast as well.

I walk this path, too.

I’m not just a practitioner — I’m a neurodivergent, highly sensitive human with complex health concerns. I’ve also raised two amazing neurodivergent kids to adulthood.

In just our immediate family, we’ve navigated:

     •     LGBQT+ related concerns  🌈
     •     Autism, ADHD (including slow cognitive type), anxiety, and depression
     •     Selective mutism, Tourette’s syndrome, misophonia, and auditory processing issues
     •     Brain injury, fibromyalgia, MTHFR mutations, MCAS, autoimmune conditions, and more

I get it. Deeply. Intuitively. Quickly. You won’t have to explain everything — I’ll already be attuned to what’s going on, often before words are even needed.

What it feels like to work with me:
     •     Relief, because you won’t have to educate your provider or prove your complexity
     •     Respect, because I see neurodivergence as a gift to be supported, not a problem to fix
     •     Creativity, because I find flexible, personalized ways to meet your needs
     •     Ease, because I can track subtle cues of dysregulation and adjust the process early
     •     Confidence, because I hold the bigger picture so you can simply show up and heal

And when you’re ready to go further, I offer NeurOptimal Neurofeedback and iLs Focus as natural next steps — all with the same level of care, insight, and customization.

I offer flat rate independent listening packages for SSP or RRP.  

I offer flexible payment plans in either CDN or US currency.

However, if you want a more fully coregulated experience of SSP or RRP, I also have a pay-as-you-go option where we can some even deeper work with me present for all or most of listening, while we also weave in together elements of Brainspotting, Somatic Experiencing, and parts work.  

A note about pricing and quality of care

Some low-cost SSP providers offer little support, and I’ve worked with clients who were left dysregulated and sometimes even abandoned when things got hard.  This often creates unexpected added expense requiring additional help from other providers, to get things settled again.

With me, you’re not just getting SSP—you’re getting expert support, real-time responsiveness, trauma-informed care, and a compassionate partner who knows how to handle complexity safely. I’ve built my practice around helping people feel deeply supported, seen, and safe throughout the entire journey.

“I thought I was saving money with a low-cost provider. But when things started to unravel, they disappeared—and I was left to pick up the pieces. Finding Carol Ann changed everything. She knew exactly how to help, and for the first time, I felt safe, seen, and supported.”
— Former SSP client, now thriving

Are you a provider?

Whether you’re new to SSP or highly experienced but feeling stuck with complex cases, I offer a range of supports to help you grow in confidence, skill, and ease:

     •     Individual & group SSP/RRP consultations
     •     Advanced SSP training, including the option to have your own SSP process expertly guided by me with teaching woven in at no extra cost
     •     Somatic Experiencing® skills group – Build your nervous system literacy and learn to track physiology more deeply in yourself and others
     •     Brainspotting sessions – Personalized support to help you regulate your own nervous system, process stuck points or past difficult experiences with SSP/RRP, and work through core beliefs or unresolved trauma that may be quietly limiting your success and confidence as a provider.
     •     Marketing support – Strategic, heart-centered help to attract more ideal clients, get clearer on your niche, and make your practice more sustainable
     •     Customizable SSP Practice Forms
     •     A Deluxe SSP Provider Practice Bundle with substantial savings on my advanced training, consultations, and more

Are you a Neurodivergent Woman?

Whether you are dealing with ADHD, autism, giftedness or other forms of neurodivergence - you are welcome to join my supportive Online Neurodivergent Women's Group.

Your nervous system is unique. Your path should be too. Let’s discover it together.


A gentle, supportive way to begin your SSP or RRP journey—on your own, but not alone. This mostly flat-rate package includes one online session to help you start with confidence, followed by email support throughout the process. Ideal for those wanting a flexible, self-paced option with expert guidance - without the need for ongoing sessions.

Important Information About Starting SSP or RRP

Please Read Before Beginning

With either Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) or Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP), it’s possible that some symptoms may temporarily worsen before improving—especially if the nervous system becomes overwhelmed. We do everything we can to prevent this by carefully observing how your system is responding, pausing or slowing the process when needed to keep it gentle and safe.

Committing to staying in touch with me throughout the listening process is key in order to keep either process as gentle as possible, and to allow for best possible improvements.

 Choosing the Right Time to Begin

Ideally, SSP or RRP should be started when you (or your child) are not already at your limit. If you’re facing major stressors or upcoming events that could be overwhelming, it might be either best to wait for those events to pass, or we may be able to proceed with a plan to take special care. 

It is always wise to discuss timing with me if you’re unsure.

SSP and RRP are most effective when the nervous system feels safe. If there is significant conflict at home, or someone in the household feels threatening or destabilizing to the listener, SSP or RRP may be less effective. Please reach out if you’re unsure whether SSP is the right next step right now, or if you’d like guidance on where to start instead.

Whenever possible, choose a time when you can slow down a little—just in case the process gets bumpy and you need space to integrate.

🦷 Medical & Safety Considerations

Please avoid starting SSP or RRP if:


     •     You are about to undergo invasive dental work (e.g., root canal or extraction)
     •     You’ve had a recent head injury
     •     You have a seizure disorder and have not been seizure-free for at least one year

If you have any significant medical issues or a history of bipolar depression, please let me know in advance so I can arrange a medical consult if needed.

🎧 Getting Started with SSP or RRP

What is described below is the flat rate process for either SSP or RRP. 

If you would prefer to have me present for more, most, or all of the listening process, this is possible as well.  If SSP or RRP is combined with therapy sessions, there is often no additional fee or either process.  Combining or supporting either RRP, SSP or both with therapy with me is an option available to those aged 18 and over

Independent Listening Delivery Format


     •     For teens and adults we typically begin with an online session where I observe the start of listening.
     •     For children 12 and under, I usually meet with the parent to learn more about the child and co-create a plan for how to begin.

After our listening session, communication is usually done via email for the rest of the process —unless you are choosing to combine RRP or SSP with therapy with me.

🤝 Coregulation During Listening

SSP is most effective in the context of felt safety. Ideally, the listener should have a calm, trusted support person present during listening—someone who can offer soft eye contact, a gentle smile, or a reassuring presence when needed.  This is most often a friend or family member.  Sometimes those seeing a therapist or bodyworker regularly may choose to listen with them.

This social engagement supports the nervous system in integrating the SSP experience. While some people begin to feel more socially connected weeks after completing SSP, others begin experiencing this shift during listening.

If you don’t have someone to be present with you, SSP or RRP may still be possible—just reach out to discuss alternative support options.

📩 Ongoing Monitoring & Support

Throughout the SSP and RRP process, regular email check-ins are essential. Ideally, you’ll check in every day or every few days with updates on changes in areas such as:

     •     Sleep
     •     Mood
     •     Focus
     •     Energy levels
     •     Digestion
     •     Sound sensitivities
     •     Pain levels

We will basically play detective together, watching for cues as to how your nervous system is responding. I also will teach you how to recognize how much SSP your body wants at each and every step of the way.

⚠️ If you don’t stay in touch or don’t follow your provider’s guidance, SSP or RRP may become less effective—or even uncomfortable. Staying connected is key!

📱 Devices & Technology

SSP is delivered through the Unyte app, which works on:
     •     Smartphones or tablets
     •     Newer MacBooks with the M1 chip
     •     Some Chromebooks

🚫 Desktop or standard laptops will not work.

If we’re doing an online session to start for your own listening, you’ll need a second device for the video call (Zoom, etc.) while the app plays SSP music on your primary device.

Please download the app and test your headphone connection before our session. If you haven’t received your app invitation by the day before our meeting, please contact me.

🎧 Headphone Requirements for SSP

You’ll need a high-quality pair of over-the-ear headphones for SSP. The requirements:
     •     No earbuds for SSP
     •     No noise-cancelling (unless it can be turned off)
     •     No bass enhancement
     •     Must fit fully over the ears with padded ear cups
     •     Speakers can be used in some situations, please ask me about this

🎧 Headphone Requirements for RRP

     •     Any good quality speakers, headphones or ​earbuds are fine for RRP
     •     Please avoid using phone or laptop speakers

If your headphones aren’t Bluetooth, make sure they can connect to your device. Some setups may require an adapter.

🔊 Recommended headphone models for SSP:

OneOdio A70 or A71 are headphones that have been specifically vetted by Unyte as being great inexpensive options for SSP.

If you or your child has difficulty wearing headphones, don’t worry—we have other alternatives. Please contact me to discuss.

💬 Booking & Availability

Due to high demand, I’m not always available to take on new clients directly. You can check my current availability and book online here to see if availability is showing.

If my calendar is full or if you prefer, you may also choose to work with one of my SSP Yoda Informed Associates—highly trained, compassionate providers who often have availability sooner and offer a comparable quality of care at a slightly lower rate.

👉 Click here to view SSP package pricing options


I’ve supported several hundred people worldwide from ages 2-78 years old with SSP—always gently, safely, and with deep respect for each unique nervous system. Clients have included those with anxiety, autism, giftedness, Tourettes, brain injury, misophonia, Lyme, mold exposure, ADHD, PTSD, sensory issues, tinnitus, psychogenic seizures, long COVID, chronic illness, neurodivergence, LGBTQ+ concerns and more. No two journeys are alike, and that’s exactly how I approach this work.

What is the Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP)?

The Safe & Sound Protocol is a 5 hour auditory intervention, created by Stephen Porges, the founder of polyvagal theory.

SSP music has been specially filtered in a way that causes the vagus nerve to become stimulated during listening. SSP music is basically delivering "cues of safety" to the nervous system.

As long as this listening occurs in the context of someone feeling safe and supported, this introduces a calmer, parasympathetic state, and allows someone whose brain may have been constantly scanning for danger to no longer enhance and hyper focus upon lower frequency sounds  - the sounds of danger - but instead to shift focus to higher frequency sounds - the sounds of human speech.

SSP listening also helps to improve the functioning of the middle ear muscles which ideally then become better able to filter out background noise to hear the sound of speech, and others sounds of safety.

This changes all come together for example to allow someone to be able to more easily - and often effortlessly, without "trying" or even being aware that they are doing so - to filter out sounds that they previously would have been distressed by.

Areas of Improvement Potentially Arising 2-7 weeks after completion of SSP Core

Reduced anxiety, especially social anxiety
Improved assertiveness and self protectiveness
Increased displays of affection-seeking affection-expressive contact
Increased facial flexibility and expressiveness
Increased body flexibility
Reduced chronic pain
Change in throat tension/sound of voice
Improved eye contact
Reduced repetitive motions and restlessness
Increased feelings of calmness
Hearing changes/reductions in sensory hypersensitivities
Finding transitions much easier
Speech and language improvements
Reduced sensitivity to food tastes and textures/less "picky eating"
Improved reciprocal communication
Thoughts and behavior have more purposeful flow
Improved comprehension
Easier to follow directions
Improved processing speed
Improved organization
Improved dexterity
More active participant in classroom, able to tolerate and overcome challenges
Improved visual focus/tracking
More able to put words to feeling
Able to remain regulated during face to face communication
Improved self-awareness (particularly of emotions),
Improved communication about self (again particularly about emotions),
Decreased panic, fears and phobias
Improved cardiac function
Improvement in breathing patterns.
Able to tolerate busy environments
Increased sense of humor
Improved ability to read social cues
Less easily stressed
Improved digestion
Improved bladder control
Hormonal shifts for women
Concerns related to long covid.

Click here to learn about the differences between SSP, RRP, and iLs

Click here to learn more about what the SSP process with us looks like

Click here to view SSP pricing package options

View independent listening SSP or RRP payment plan options in CDN currency OR in US currency

Click here to watch some videos about SSP

Click here to book in to start SSP with an SSP Yoda Informed associate.









Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP) invites your system to soften, settle, and come home to itself. Like being gently rocked from within, it nurtures calm, safety, and connection to your inner world—supporting sleep, digestion, mood, and regulation. While RRP beautifully complements SSP, it can also stand alone as a powerful path to healing and deep embodied presence.

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Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP)

The Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP) is a newer offering developed by Dr. Stephen Porges, the founder of Polyvagal Theory and the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP), together with a composer, Anthony Gorry. I had the honour of helping with the RRP pilot study in the summer of 2024, and I continue to explore the powerful shifts this protocol can offer—especially when carefully titrated for sensitive and complex systems.

RRP is designed to support deep regulation by helping the body rest, settle, and repair. While SSP is more oriented toward connection with others, RRP gently invites us inward—fostering connection with ourselves.

Dr. Porges describes SSP as being like a mother’s lullaby—encouraging us to reach outward, to co-regulate and connect with others.

In contrast, he describes RRP as being like a mother’s gentle rocking—helping us soften inward, and more fully land in our own body.

In the pilot study, the most commonly reported improvements included:

     •     Reduced anxiety
     •     Improved mood
     •     Better digestion
     •     Deeper, more restful sleep

In my own work with RRP clients, I’ve also seen improvements with:

     •     Chronic pain
     •     Auditory processing
     •     Executive functioning (often dramatically)
     •     Feeling calmer and more regulated
     •     Natural, effortless shifts toward healthier choices (like eating and exercise)

People often describe a quiet inner calm—a sense of finally arriving home in their body.

As with SSP, the delivery of RRP must be tailored to the individual nervous system. It can be gentle, yet profound, and can be deeply nourishing, as long as it is carefully titrated.

Click here to learn about the differences between SSP, RRP and iLs.


Click here to learn more about what the Independent Listening RRP process with us looks like

Click here to view RRP pricing package options

View independent listening SSP or RRP payment plan options in CDN currency OR in US currency

Click here to book in to start RRP 

For trauma, neurodivergence, and complex systems, clinical precision and attunement make all the difference. Work with internationally recognized expert Carol Ann Brayley, MSW, RSW, SEP. Ask about family discounts & discounts on subsequent rounds of SSP. Covered under extended health plans that cover social workers in Ontario

When insight isn’t enough, Brainspotting helps you finally feel the shift. This gentle, body-based therapy reaches the places talk therapy can’t - supporting deep healing for trauma, anxiety, and overwhelm. Especially helpful for sensitive and neurodivergent nervous systems.

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Brainspotting Therapy: Real Healing Starts Here

Talk therapy helps us understand our problems - but understanding isn’t the same as healing.
Many of my clients have done years of talk therapy. They’ve learned tools. They’ve gained insight. But they still feel stuck. That’s because traditional therapy often works from the top down, trying to reason with emotional wounds stored far deeper in the body and brain.

Brainspotting is different.

It works from the bottom up - directly with the nervous system - to release trauma, anxiety, and overwhelm at the root. Whether you’re navigating complex trauma, chronic stress, or simply know something hasn’t shifted yet, Brainspotting can help.  The best part?  While talking is always welcome in Brainspotting, it isn’t required. For those who find speaking difficult or simply prefer not to, this approach can support deep healing — often with very few words at all.

What Is Brainspotting?

Brainspotting is a gentle, brain-body-based therapy that helps uncover and release what talk therapy can’t always reach. It uses eye position to access specific areas in the brain where emotional or somatic pain is being stored.

By attuning to the body and staying with the “brainspot,” your system can process old material naturally - without needing to relive or explain everything.

It’s effective for:
     •     Developmental or complex trauma
     •     Anxiety, panic, and freeze states  
     •     Fears phobias and related concerns such as fear of speaking in certain contexts (selective mutism)
     •     Chronic pain, migraines, or tension
     •     Dissociation or shutdown
     •     Burnout or grief
     •     Neurodivergent overwhelm (e.g., PDA, sensory overload, masking fatigue)
     •     When talk therapy has helped a little — but not enough 
     •     Physical symptoms with an emotional component (e.g., pain, tension, migraines, misophonia, concussion recovery)

Brainspotting for Neurodivergent and Highly Sensitive Clients

As someone who is neurodivergent myself, I understand how overwhelming life can be when your nervous system is already working overtime.

Brainspotting is an especially good fit for autistic, ADHD, or otherwise neurodivergent clients - because it doesn’t require you to “perform” or force insights. It allows your system to process in the background, without needing to verbalize every feeling or memory. Sessions are paced gently, with deep respect for sensory needs, pacing, and what feels safeYou will be in the driver's seat.

Combining Brainspotting with Somatic Experiencing, SSP & RRP

In some cases, Brainspotting is even more effective when combined with other nervous system-based approaches like Somatic Experiencing, the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) or the Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP). These protocols help regulate the nervous system and build capacity - making it easier to access and integrate deeper healing work.

Combining these approaches when useful can help people to “go in” more effectively, with less reactivity and more ease. And for highly sensitive or complex clients, I may recommend a carefully layered approach that we build together.

What to Expect in a Session

Sessions are intuitive, client-led, and deeply attuned. You don’t have to know where to begin — your body already knows. We simply listen together.

We’ll:
     •     Tune into an issue or sensation you’d like to shift
     •     Identify one or multiple brainspots (linked to precise eye positions)
     •     Stay with and/or repeatedly that spot, with curiosity and presence
     •     Allow your nervous system to process what it’s ready to release
     •     If desired you can listen to Brainspotting music during your session through earbuds or headphones.  You can access Brainspotting music from places like Spotify or YouTube.

No need to retell your trauma. No pressure to push. We move at your pace, and I’ll be right there with you the whole time.

Online Brainspotting Sessions

All sessions are offered online - but don’t mistake virtual for distant. My clients often tell me they feel deeply seen and supported, even more so from the comfort of their own space.

I work with adults and teens (16+) and if you'd like to we can integrate Somatic Experiencing, Brainspotting, SSP, RRP, and intuitive guidance to support healing that’s truly individualized.

Start Healing What Talk Therapy Couldn’t Reach

If you’re ready for something deeper - something that actually creates change - Brainspotting may be the support your nervous system has been waiting for.

Sessions are $200 CDN - approximately $146 US.

👉 Book a session or contact me to explore whether this approach is a fit for you.

What if your body already knew how to heal - it just needed the right support? Somatic Experiencing helps you gently unwind trauma, anxiety, and overwhelm at the nervous system level.

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Somatic Experiencing (SE)

When your nervous system has been stuck in survival mode, healing doesn’t happen through words alone.

Somatic Experiencing (SE) is a gentle, body-based approach that helps you reconnect with yourself, release stored survival energy, and finally start to feel safe - from the inside out.

Whether you’re carrying the imprint of trauma, navigating chronic stress or burnout, or simply feeling disconnected from your body, SE supports deep, lasting shifts by working directly with your physiology.

What Is Somatic Experiencing?

Developed by Dr. Peter Levine, Somatic Experiencing is based on the understanding that trauma is held in the body - not just the mind. Even when a threatening situation is long over, your nervous system may still be stuck in patterns of fight, flight, freeze, or shutdown.

SE helps your body complete the responses it couldn’t at the time, allowing your system to move out of survival mode and into a felt sense of safety, regulation, and connection.

It doesn’t require you to retell your story. In fact, we don’t need to focus on the story at all. Instead, we follow the body’s cues and gently build capacity for what feels overwhelming - one step at a time.

What SE Can Help With

Somatic Experiencing can be profoundly helpful for:
     •     Complex trauma or developmental trauma
     •     Anxiety, chronic stress, or burnout
     •     Dissociation, freeze, or shutdown
     •     Medical trauma or chronic health issues
     •     Pain, tension, or other body-based symptoms
     •     Sleep challenges and digestion issues
     •     Sensory overload and neurodivergent nervous systems
     •     Feeling numb, disconnected, or “stuck” in your healing
Gentle, Attuned, and Customized to You

No two nervous systems are the same. That’s why SE sessions with me are never formulaic. We’ll follow your body’s lead, go at your pace, and use your unique responses as a guide.

Sessions may include:
     •     Tuning into internal sensations with support
     •     Noticing subtle shifts and natural cycles of regulation
     •     Helping your system safely complete stuck responses
     •     Grounding tools that actually work with your physiology
     •     Integration of other modalities like SSP, RRP, Brainspotting, or parts work when helpful

And because I work intuitively, we may weave in gentle insights, somatic symbolism, or unexpected threads of wisdom — all grounded in deep respect for your system’s timing and needs.

Online Sessions

Although SE is a somatic modality, it translates beautifully to online sessions. I’ll guide you in reconnecting with your body in a safe, supported way — whether you’re sitting at your desk, wrapped in a blanket, or wherever you are most comfortable.

Many of my clients say they feel deeply connected and regulated even through the screen. If anything, being in a familiar environment can make it easier for the nervous system to settle and explore.

A Different Kind of Therapy - One That Actually Shifts Things

If you’ve tried talk therapy and gained insight but haven’t felt real change, Somatic Experiencing may offer a new path forward — one that listens to the body, honors your pace, and supports your system in doing what it was always meant to do: heal.

Sessions are $200 CDN (approximately $159 US).

👉 Book a session or get in touch to see if Somatic Experiencing feels like a fit for your next step.

Support for healing, growth, and everything in between. Whether you’re navigating something hard or reaching for something more, sessions are intuitive, body-based, and tailored to your unique nervous system. Covered under extended health plans that include registered social workers in Ontario.

Integrative, Intuitive Support for Deep Healing and Transformation

Many people first find me through my work with the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP). But therapy with me is about so much more than listening to music. It’s about listening to you - your body, your story, your nervous system, and your inner knowing.

As a clinical social worker with extensive training in body-based and neuroscience-informed therapies, I bring together a wide range of approaches to meet you exactly where you are. I’m internationally recognized for my work with SSP and RRP, and also trained in Somatic Experiencing®, EMDR, Brainspotting, Integral Somatic Psychology (ISP), iLs, NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback, and parts work. I often incorporate mindfulness, intuitive insight, and nervous system attunement to guide the work in powerful and unexpected ways.

If you’re seeking therapy, we’ll start by exploring what’s most important to you and what feels safe and possible right now. From there, we’ll co-create a path forward using whatever combination of modalities feels most aligned for your healing.

Therapy with Me Offers Many Options:

     •     Somatic Experiencing® to gently release stored stress and trauma through the body
     •     Brainspotting and EMDR to access and resolve deeper emotional wounds
     •     Parts Work to meet the younger, protective, or reactive parts of you with compassion
     •     Integral Somatic Psychology (ISP) to amplify embodiment and emotional integration
     •     Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) and Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP) for profound nervous system regulation
     •     iLs Focus and Neurofeedback (NeurOptimal®) to support cognitive, emotional, and sensory processing
     •     Mindfulness and intuitive guidance to gently uncover what’s ready to heal
     •     A grounded, compassionate relationship rooted in safety, curiosity, and respect

You can listen to me talk about how I approach my work with clients in this interview on The Spiritually Curious Therapist podcast

I’m neurodivergent and highly sensitive myself, with a history of complex trauma. I know how hard things can feel sometimes, from both sides of the therapy relationship. And I know the courage it takes to reach for something different.

If you’ve had therapy before and felt unseen, unsupported, or overwhelmed… this might feel like a very different experience.  I work online or by phone - but that doesn’t mean distant. I will be right there with you.

You don’t have to do this alone. Let’s find what your nervous system needs—together.

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All SSP Yoda Informed Associates benefit from direct, ongoing access to my expertise—and I benefit from theirs as well. We each bring our unique strengths to the table and offer SSP internationally at equivalent rates. I am based in Ontario, Canada, and charge in Canadian dollars, while Raizy, Lara and Emily are based in the U.S. and charge in the equivalent U.S. currency.

Carol Ann Brayley, MSW, RSW, SEP

SSP Yoda

From the moment I first encountered SSP I became very passionate about it. I learned with SSP very rapidly and lately I feel like I am coming to new understandings about SSP on an almost daily basis, that I believe may at times help to increase its effectiveness.

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Raizy Yormark, MSW, LSW, CCC-SLP

SSP Yoda Associate

Raizy is a very welcome addition to the SSP Yoda team. Raizy brings a wealth of experience and unique skill set as someone who is trained as both a trauma therapist and as a speech and language pathologist. She specializes in working with highly sensitive people and those with complex trauma.

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Lara Wrigley, Psy D

SSP Yoda Associate

Dr. Lara Wrigley is a licensed clinical psychologist with over 30 years of clinical experience working with a broad range of clients at all phases of the life span. She utilizes an integrative model in her approach that includes a focus on relational health, trauma and nervous system regulation. As a member of PSYPACT, she is able to offer insurance reimbursable psychotherapy in most states within the U.S.

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Emily Perraut, MA, LLP, CCTP

SSP Yoda Associate

Emily is a licensed psychotherapist and experienced trauma therapist. who has been in practice since 2011. Emily is based near Detroit, Michigan. Emily and I have been friends for a few years, having first connected in online clinical trainings. I didn't know how interested Emily was in SSP until the first time we met in person when I was traveling through Michigan. Emily's intense curiosity and obvious excitement about SSP reminded me very much of myself when I first encountered it. Between my own overwhelming intuitive sense, Emily's already being an experienced, kind, caring and sensitive trauma therapist with a strong sense of social justice - I knew right away she'd make an incredible SSP provider and that I'd love to have her on my team.

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The following installment payment plans apply to remote delivery of either SSP OR RRP when working with Carol Ann Brayley. Installment plans with SSP Yoda Associate providers can be arranged with them, at their own discretion.

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Are you interested in working with Carol Ann Brayley with SSP or RRP but need installation payment plan options?

The plans below are for SSP or RRP remote delivery options. We will start with one online session in which I observe the start of listening. After that we stay in touch via email with you checking in with me often so that I can advise you on how to proceed.

SSP or RRP installment plan options in US currency

SSP or RRP installment plan options in CDN currency
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When you are ready, please feel free to book yourself in with your preferred provider. Or, you can contact Carol Ann Brayley, MSW, RSW, SEP if you have any questions or would like to have a specific provider recommended for yourself or your family.

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Are you a new RRP provider who is excited to offer Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP) but unsure where to start? Feeling like you have more questions than answers? As a provider who assisted with the RRP pilot study, I’ve spent several months exploring how to deliver RRP effectively—especially for complex clients. In this webinar, I share what I’ve learned so you can feel clearer, more prepared, and ready to support your clients. You don’t have to figure it out alone—get the guidance you need and start offering RRP with confidence! 🎵💛

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Group SSP & RRP Consultations

Are you an SSP and/or RRP provider looking for ongoing support, professional guidance, and collaboration with like-minded practitioners? My online group consultation meetings are designed to help you deepen your understanding, refine your practice, and navigate challenges while working with clients using the Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP) & Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP). Please join us!

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Individual SSP & RRP Consultations

In individual sessions, I use both my clinical expertise and strong intuition to quickly zero in on what’s most helpful for you or your clients. We can even incorporate Brainspotting to deepen insight, resolve blocks, and boost your confidence. As an approved Unyte mentor and certified RRP provider, I bring unique perspectives drawn from my extensive experience with SSP and my evolving expertise with Rest & Restore Protocol.

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NeurOptimal neurofeedback is one of many fantastic options to follow SSP with, to allow further nervous system settling and integration. Fees often covered within the limits of your extended health plan. Free delivery available to many areas & significant discounts available. No hidden fees. Please enquire for details.

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With NeurOptimal neurofeedback, our focus is upon restoring brain resilience and flexibility.
NeurOptimal is easy to use, safe and gentle. It does not require first having any kind of assessment, or complicated and expensive brain mapping as, with NeurOptimal, the brain is in charge.

During NeurOptimal sessions, no frequencies are sent to the brain. The system is on a tablet, and five sensors are attached to the scalp and ears.

The sensors monitor brain functioning. During sessions, music - or children's TV shows or movies, if desired - are playing through the tablet. When the sensors detect that the brain is about to shift from one state to another, there will be a little crackle or gap in the audio - kind of like a record "skip".

Because this pattern keeps happening over and over again, the brain begins to recognize it is being given feedback about itself.

It's kind of like if we had been doing yoga our whole life but we had never had a mirror in front us. Then one day a mirror appears and all at once we can see that our downward dog has been a bit "off".

By increasing the brain's awareness of what it has been doing, it gives the brain a chance to course correct. The brain itself decides what it does with that information and how it wants to proceed.

Because the brain is in charge with this system, there does not tend to be any risk of side effects as the brain does not tend to push itself faster than it is ready to go.

Neurofeedback is not considered either a treatment or a therapy but rather a form of brain training - basically it is like "going to the gym" for the brain. However, when we optimize brain functioning an extremely wide range of areas have the potential for improvement as the brain helps to mediate every other system of the body. Areas such as mood, sleep, nervous system, memory, cognition, immune system, energy levels, digestion, allergies, focus, emotional regulation, headaches including migraines, and more are all areas where improvements may occur.

Although there has not yet been time for adequate research to be done, there have been many anecdotal reports in relation to long covid.

During sessions, you can simply relax. Taking naps, reading, answering emails, playing games on a phone or tablet are all completely fine during NeurOptimal sessions. This system has been used on patients in comas with positive results. Sometimes parents of small children on the spectrum may run sessions on their children during sleep. Kids who struggle with homework, often find their homework much easier when they do it while having a NeurOptimal session.

NeurOptimal Pricing

Those accessing NeurOptimal with me who have extended health plans that cover social workers in Ontario, may be reimbursed for their sessions, within the limits of their plan.

In person sessions, when available are $180 each.

NeurOptimal Rental System Packages

Discounts are often available, please enquire for details.  Free local delivery is often possible (Brantford, Paris, Hamilton, Cambridge, Kitchener, Burlington and surrounding area).  Shipping available across Canada at an additional charge.

Unlimited sessions, over 2 weeks.....$630
Unlimited sessions, over 4 weeks.....$990

After renting for 4 weeks additional 4 week periods can be added on for $810

The systems are very easy to use and come with everything you need - conductive paste, manual, etc...   Support and advice via email is also included.

Feel free to share your sessions with family members. If a child is doing brain training it is ideal if at least one parent is also having sessions.

When people do brain training together they tend to "synch up" better and feel more connected. As we begin to improve we are able to support the improvements of others.

Neurofeedback units are also available for purchase.  Should you choose to purchase your own unit after renting one from me, I will rebate up to $100 of your rental fee. Please enquire for details prior to purchasing.

Interested in learning more or booking a system?  Please email me



iLs Focus is another wonderful offering from Unyte-iLs, the SSP company. iLs Focus is wonderful for kids and adults alike. Helpful for those who are neurodivergent, those with auditory processing disorders, a history of trauma, acquired brain injury and more. Another wonderful option to either follow SSP with, or prepare for SSP.

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Integrated Listening Systems (iLs) Focus System

With Focus we combine specially-treated music, bone conduction headphones, and air conduction technology together with physical movement.

This allows Focus to support brain integration and skill-building for anyone. It is wonderful for those with sensory-motor and neurodevelopmental challenges.

Those with concerns such as autism, ADHD, learning difficulties, auditory & sensory processing disorders, brain injury, trauma, sensory sensitivities, sound sensitivities, and more.
Ideal for both children and adults, the Focus System is easily integrated together with other modalities that may be being accessed.

Focus is also easily integrated into daily life.

Ideally iLs Focus is listened to for approximately 3-5 hours per week. Sessions can be done in either 30 minute or one hour increments.

For each full hour of listening, ideally about 15 minutes of special Focus "activities" will be done. These are things such as standing on one leg, tossing a bean bag, playing with a ball, using a balance board, and more.

Over the course of the listening program(s), as brain functioning is improved, the activities will become easier. As this happen the level of challenging with each activity is raised slightly and, as the higher levels are fully mastered, we then move on to new activities.

For the remainder of each hour of listening, both. kids and adults move on to doing other things. For adults this could involve tidying the house, doing yard work, cooking, getting ready for work, going for walks, etc...

For kids this may be different forms of playing. Using fine motor and gross motor skills by doing things such as playing with toys, drawing or colouring, gently bouncing on a mini trampoline, going for a walk, riding a bike, climbing, and more.
iLs Focus includes:
Calming Program
Sensory & Motor Program
Concentration & Attention Program
Reading & Auditory Processing Program
Two Optimal Performance Programs
A Playbook and Integration Kit for movement activities

The process begins with a brief written assessment to determine which of the included Focus programs may be relevant for you or your child.

Programs can be combined and condensed in order to shorten overall timeline.

Pricing

NEW!! Focus has moved to a digital delivery format which now allows me to supervise remote use of Unyte-iLs Focus to people located virtually anywhere.

For those within Canada, I do have a few physical iLs Focus systems on hand so those could be used instead of the app, and no purchase of the activity pack mentioned below, would be necessary.

To receive Focus through the new app - accessible from almost any location - you will also need to purchase an "activity" pack from the Unyte-iLs company for $299 US.   

The activity pack includes: an amplifier, bone-conducting headphones, waist pack, balance board, 2 bean bags, 1 racket ball, 1 tethered tennis ball, headband, Playbook, manual and carry bag. You then own the activity pack and, if at some point you no longer have use for it, it can be resold - I will be interested in purchasing some activity packs back from clients myself.

You will use the activity pack together with your own device onto which the Focus app has been downloaded.

Monthly fee (pay as you go): $240 CDN (approx $177 US)
6 month access: $960 (approx $710 US)
12 month access: $1620 (approx $1225 US)

Six and 12 month plans can be broken down into monthly instalments.

Family Discounts:

Additional family members accessing iLs Focus within the same time period are 50% off.

Click here to learn about the differences between SSP, RRP, and iLs





Answers to frequently asked questions about SSP. If you have a question that is not answered here, please get in touch!

What does the music sound like?

🎧 SSP (Safe & Sound Protocol)
  • SSP offers several playlists, each available with the same filtering algorithm — the differences lie in style and familiarity, not in therapeutic strength.  
  • The current SSP playlists include:
    • Original: familiar contemporary songs (rock, pop, country, etc.) you might recognize.  
    • Wonder: playful, recognizable songs (often Disney-style) intended to appeal to children (but enjoyable by all ages).  
    • Classical: non-vocal classical music, carefully curated for accessibility.  
    • Freely: ambient fusion, non-vocal, original compositions for a more neutral, wash-of-sound experience.  
    Groove and Groove Instrumental (no vocals): rhythmic, eclectic mixes of pop/rock, percussion, and instrumental textures.  
  • All of these playlists use the same filtering algorithm (in SSP Core / Balance) designed to emphasize specific sound frequencies that support autonomic nervous system regulation.  
  • Because the filtering is the same, you’re free to alternate between playlists (for instance, swapping in a classical piece mid-session) — just make sure you match timing so you don’t lose alignment.  
🎼 RRP (Rest & Restore Protocol)
  • RRP uses music specially composed for the protocol  
  • The pieces are instrumental, designed to support deep relaxation, coherence, and regulation rather than to entertain.  
  • The 5-hour RRP sequence is structured:
    • The first 30 minutes is unfiltered 
    • After that, it is divided into three “levels”, each 90 minutes, further split into 30-minute segments.  
  • You may find that some levels feel easier than others. It’s okay to stay longer at a level you do well with before progressing.  
  • RRP also incorporates Sonocea® Sonic Augmentation Technology, which embeds acoustic parameters tuned to biological rhythms, to more directly support physiological coherence and vagal regulation.  
🔊 NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback
  • The music is instrumental, soothing, somewhat ambient in tone — “new age–style” is a common description.
  • Occasionally, you’ll hear slight crackles or skips in the audio. That’s not noise or a fault — it’s how feedback is delivered to your brain in real time.
  • Otherwise, you’re free to engage in other activities (reading, napping, etc.) as long as the sensors remain attached.
🎶 iLs (Integrated Listening Systems / iLs Focus)
  • iLs uses classical music, often paired with sections of Gregorian chanting (for those who enjoy it) to blend musicality with neuro-sensory support.
  • The music is intended to integrate with movement and coordination exercises rather than being purely passive.

What is the difference between SSP and RRP?

Both SSP (Safe and Sound Protocol) and RRP (Rest & Restore Protocol) were developed by Dr. Stephen Porges, and while they share the same Polyvagal foundation, they support the nervous system in different yet complementary ways.

SSP – The Safe and Sound Protocol

SSP is designed to help the nervous system feel safe, connected, and socially engaged. It uses music filtered in specific ways to stimulate the middle ear muscles and activate the social engagement branch of the vagus nerve — the pathway that supports calm connection, emotional regulation, and the ability to relate to others.

SSP helps the body shift out of chronic defense states such as fight, flight, or freeze and move toward safety and connection. Many people notice improvements in sound sensitivities, anxiety, mood, attention, and resilience

RRP – The Rest & Restore Protocol

RRP builds on the same Polyvagal principles but focuses more on the body’s restorative and recovery systems. The first 30 minutes of RRP are completely unfiltered, while the remaining levels use new, gentle filtering algorithms that were specifically designed to work with the restorative branch of the vagus nerve — rather than the social engagement system that SSP targets.

The RRP music, composed by Anthony Gorry and enhanced through Sonocea® technology, is entirely instrumental and supports deep rest, physiological coherence, and connection with oneself. While SSP fosters connection outwardly with others, RRP fosters connection inwardly — helping the body restore and self-regulate at a deeper level.

How they work together

SSP and RRP complement each other beautifully. SSP tends to open and prepare the system by creating safety and social engagement, while RRP helps stabilize, integrate, and deepen that regulation through rest and restoration.

Some people begin with SSP and follow it with RRP; others start with RRP if their system needs more grounding or help with sleep before reaching outward toward connection. Used together, they create a powerful and holistic path toward lasting nervous system regulation and resilience.

Where should I begin?

Most people ultimately benefit from both the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) and the Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP) - they complement each other beautifully.

We’ll look together at what improvements you most want to see and what your usual nervous system patterns tend to be. From there, we’ll create a personalized plan for where to begin. Often, that includes an intention to add the other approach later. If we find that the first option isn’t feeling quite right once we begin, we always have the flexibility to switch paths.

If there’s a great deal of stress, conflict, or instability in the home, I may suggest starting with NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback instead. It can bring in more regulation and create a steadier foundation to begin from. When multiple family members do neurofeedback together, their nervous systems often start to “sync up” — relationships tend to soften, and daily life feels a bit easier.

Sometimesbeginning with RRP can make it possible to move through SSP at a gentler yet slightly faster pace than might otherwise be possible.

Generally speaking, it’s usually best to do SSP before iLs Focus. SSP helps shift physiology more quickly, which often makes iLs even more effective in deepening and “locking in” the gains.

In the same way, unless there’s a reason to start elsewhere, doing SSP before Neurofeedback often allows the NeuroOptimal® sessions to be more efficient and impactful — people tend to get much more out of the same number of sessions when their physiology has already begun to shift with SSP.

What equipment/headphones do I need?

To do SSP or RRP remotely, you will need:

Access to a device for the Unyte Health app.  Suitable devices include:
  • Smartphones (either iPhone or Android)
  • Tablets (either Apple or Android)
  • Newer Macbooks that have the M1 chip
  • Chromebooks
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The specifications for SSP and RRP are different.

For RRP:  Any good quality headphones, speakers or earbuds are fine.  We recommend avoiding laptop or phone speakers. 

For SSP:
  • over the ear, with the big padded ear cups that completely surround the ears rather than just sitting on top of them
  • they either do not have noise cancellation, or that feature can be turned off
  • not bass enhanced
  • either bluetooth or wired headphones are fine for most clients
  • some children who don't tolerate headphones easily may be more likely to accept "sleep mask" headphones like these
Examples of relatively inexpensive headphones that meet the above criteria are OneOdio A71 or OneOdio A70.  Another alternative is Audio-Technica ATH-M20x

While headphones are considered more optimal for most clients, if you or your child can not tolerate wearing headphones, using speakers is an option.  Using speakers can soften the impact of SSP at time but for some clients that can be really useful.

Earbuds can NOT be used for SSP.

Some headphones and/or speakers may require an adaptor for your device if your device does not have a 3.5mm connector.

If you are going to be listening to SSP during an online session, you will need a separate device for the online session than the one you are using for the SSP app.

For NeurOptimal Neurofeedback

Your NeurOptimal rental system will come with everything you need - no extra equipment needed.

For iLs

I am currently offering iLs through rentals of physical iLs systems that I am able to ship across Canada.  They come with everything you need. 

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Why is it a good idea for parents to do SSP or RRP before their child does?

When a parent does SSP or RRP first it helps them to have a better idea of what their child may be experiencing during the process.

It also will help the parent to stay better regulated themselves during their child's process. Although we do our best to prevent it, it is common for people to become temporarily dysregulated at times.

It is super important that the parent be able to hold space for their child, not be reactive when at all possible even if the child has moments of seeming more "difficult".   It is imperative that SSP or RRP not become a power struggle and that kids not feel punished if they have a nervous system response that they can't control during SSP.  

It doesn't need to be perfect - parents are allowed to be human and repair work can be done if something goes wrong.

However, the more regulated the parent is, the more likely it is that their child's process will be calmer, gentler and more effective.

The families where I have found it is often especially important for a parent to go first, are families who are dealing with particularly stressful or traumatic conditions, such as misophonia.

Because misophonia is often so traumatic for the entire family and because often the parent is one of their child's triggers, sometimes parents are very anxious at times during the SSP process.

For example they may worry when their child isn't yet showing improvements and fear that they never will.

They may worry when their child IS showing significant improvements that the improvements won't last.

It's normal for improvements to toggle back and forth throughout the protocol and even for a few to several week after completion.

When parents worry a lot throughout, there is a risk that their worry may potentially sabotage the process.  Nervous systems are contagious.

 Nervous systems being contagious also means that the reverse is true - we very often see kids starting to have improvements when their parent does SSP or RRP, even before the child's process begins. :)

At SSP Yoda & Associates we offer family discounts when multiple family members are accessing SSP with us.

What can I/my child do during sessions?

Each program works best with a slightly different kind of activity or focus — and part of what we’ll explore together is what helps your nervous system feel safest and most settled.

During SSP

Ideally, SSP listening is an active experience rather than something happening in the background. We want your attention gently on the music, so we avoid reading, writing, or using screens (except for online sessions with a practitioner).

Gentle, mindful activities are perfect — colouring, doodling, simple crafts, playing with fidgets, kinetic sand, or slow stretching. Light movement such as walking or rocking can actually support regulation, especially for adults or those with trauma, as long as the movement stays slow and easy rather than fast or intense.

We aim for a quiet environment, but perfection isn’t required. If a child talks during listening, it’s absolutely fine — feeling safe and supported matters far more than being silent. Many kids (and adults!) chat through SSP and still experience wonderful results.

During RRP

RRP is usually deeply relaxing, so most people naturally become still. You can sit or lie down — experiment with what feels best for your body. Some people prefer to rest quietly, while others like to focus inward or notice sensations in the body as they arise.

During NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback


You can do almost anything as long as the sensors stay attached and the NeuroOptimal® feedback sound remains the main background sound. People often nap, read, do homework, knit, play games on their phone, or even watch TV with the sound off and subtitles on. It’s designed to fit easily into daily life.

During iLs Focus

With iLs, movement is encouraged! Each hour ideally includes around 15 minutes of iLs activities — simple, fun exercises that support coordination and body awareness. The rest of the hour can include everyday activities: kids might play, colour, or build with LEGO; adults might walk, cook, clean, or garden. Gentle movement helps the brain integrate what it’s hearing.

How long will it take me to complete SSP or RRP listening? How long are listening sessions typically?

The length of time that someone can listen to SSP or RRP each time and/or how long it takes to complete either process is unpredictable.  

It is also the case that many people who do well with RRP benefit from staying on it.

We really don't know for certain before someone begins, what their ideal pace of listening will be.

The current maximum recommended length of listening session for either approach is up to 30 minutes per day but with the caveat as long as that goes well.

Most people may need listenings sessions that are much shorter than that, in order to keep the process gentle and to have best possible improvements.

Although most often we would expect many people to be able to manage 1-3 minutes of SSP listening at a time, I have had many clients who at some stages of the process may do best listening to just a few seconds at a time - often they will experience fairly immediate and vivid results when doing so.

Some people can complete SSP or RRP safely and gently within a few weeks.

More people than that can complete SSP safely and gently within a few months.

Many more sensitive or medically complex people may need several months, over a year or even more, to complete one round of SSP Core.  They may similarly take a while to go through the RRP process.  

Some people may do best to not go through all of the levels of RRP - level 3 particularly can be quite challenging for many complex people. 

Needing to go more slowly does NOT mean that it will take a long time for improvements to appear.  While everyone is different, most of my clients - especially those who are so sensitive to SSP that they can only handle a few seconds at a time - some improvements may appear within the first few days, often even within the very first listening session.  

Those who need to go very slowly through SSP very often have the most significant improvements of all.




Do I really need to have someone present with me during SSP or RRP listening?

Safe & Sound Protocol (SSP)

In theory, SSP is felt to be more likely to be the most effective when listening is done in the presence of someone we feel safe and comfortable with. SSP works by activating our social engagement systems, and when those systems start to come online — sometimes right away, sometimes weeks later — the presence of safe connection can deepen the process.

If someone feels the urge to connect during listening but is alone (or with someone they don’t feel safe around), that can make the experience less supportive.

That said, many people do SSP on their own — either by choice or necessity — and still experience wonderful improvements.  For some people - someone who doesn't feel safe around other humans or feels too self conscious having someone there with them - listening to SSP alone might actually make the process more effective for them, specifically.

Some people listen with their pets, while others connect with a friend or family member before or after a session, or even look at photos of loved ones while listening.

If you’d like additional support, it’s also possible to do all of your listening with me present. In that case, sessions are billed at my usual hourly rate, with just $50 CDN added for your SSP or RRP license, and we simply work together until your listening is complete.

Rest & Restore Protocol (RRP)

RRP tends to bring us more deeply into our bodies — into the places where emotion, sensation, and sometimes old trauma reside. For that reason, it can be especially valuable to have a supportive person present, whether that’s a therapist, practitioner, or trusted loved one.

Most people, however, still do very well listening on their own. The key is to have a flexible plan — someone you can reach out to if deeper feelings arise and you’d like additional support.

Personally, when I do SSP myself, I rarely worry about having someone present. I often listen with my pets nearby (and yes, they listen too!). We all are more relaxed afterward and the pets are extra affectionate. 🐾

But I thought SSP was listened to one hour per day five days in a row?

Listening to SSP one hour per day, five days in a row is a very outdated recommendation.  

Even back when it was the recommendation, the caveat was that that pace was fine as long as it was tolerated well

It was also never particularly the recommendation for adults and most especially was not the pace recommended for adults (and sometimes children) with trauma.

In June 2020 the recommendation changed to up to 30 minutes per day.  This recommendation change came partly due to the pandemic as we were being bombarded with messages that we are not safe.

It is always fine to take days off from listening and for many people it is quite important to do so.

As Stephen Porges, the founder of polyvagal theory and creator of SSP says himself, there are no prizes for finishing quickly.

The most recent Unyte trainings have explicitly stated we can not go too slowly with SSP but we definitely can go too fast.



SSP Pathways

SSP Core

When we refer to the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP), we’re usually speaking about SSP Core — the main protocol and the one with the most significant level of filtration.

Each of the five hours of Core is filtered differently. We listen to the music gradually and in order, at a pace that you and your provider determine is best for your (or your child’s) specific nervous system.

Some people find the first two hours of SSP Core to be especially soothing and later hours more activating, but then need to go more slowly on hour three and more slowly still on each subsequent hour.

Other people — very often more sensitive and complex people — may find the first two hours the ones they need to go more slowly on, and find that the following hours they can listen at a faster pace.

There is an older video available here where Dr. Stephen Porges explains how the filtration changes across each hour of SSP Core. Please note that SSP is no longer typically delivered over five consecutive days. The current recommendation is to listen to no more than 30 minutes per day, and many individuals benefit from going far more slowly and including rest days throughout the process.

SSP Connect

SSP Connect uses completely unfiltered music and is often used as a gentle preparation for SSP Core.

For example, a young child who is new to music-based therapy or headphones might start with Connect to become familiar with the process before filtration is introduced. While entirely optional, Connect can help the nervous system begin adjusting in a safe, accessible way.

Although there’s no filtering, some people still notice mild therapeutic benefits from Connect. It can also be used after completing Core or as a temporary pause if someone is feeling overactivated during Core — helping them settle before resuming.

Because Connect is unfiltered, it doesn’t matter which track or hour is used, or whether all five hours are completed.

A small number of people — typically sensitive adults or those with trauma histories — may still experience mild dysregulation with Connect. For this reason, it’s best to start slowly. Interestingly, those who find Connect challenging sometimes discover that Core actually feels easier once they transition to it.

SSP Balance

SSP Balance provides mild acoustic vagus nerve stimulation through lighter filtration than SSP Core.

Balance was originally designed as a gentler option for those who don’t tolerate Core well. However, some individuals may still find it activating, and sometimes even more so than Core.

The filtering in Balance is the same across all five hours, so there’s no required order of listening and no need to complete every track.

Balance is most often used after completing Core as a way to extend and reinforce gains. Those who respond well to Balance can continue listening indefinitely. Some also use Balance or RRP between rounds of Core, as it’s important to wait at least eight weeks between Core rounds to allow the nervous system time to integrate and rest.

How long do improvements last for?

Each of these modalities supports the nervous system in different ways. They quite often create powerful, lasting change - especially when combined with each other or with other approaches relevant to the individual.  

However, the nervous system will also continue to adapt.  If we get sick, go through traumatic events or have serious losses, that can cause a resurgence of concerns.  

These approaches are ideally best seen as part of an ongoing process of support and integration, not a one-time fix.

SSP (Safe and Sound Protocol)

SSP is designed to be the beginning rather than the end of treatment. It helps shift the physiology into a more regulated state and opens the door for deeper healing and integration.

It’s ideal to follow SSP with something that helps the system consolidate and “claim” the changes that have been unlocked — such as iLs Focus, RRP, NeurOptimal®, Brainspotting, Somatic Experiencing®, or other regulating supports such as occupational therapy, speech and language therapy, psychotherapy, etc...

Some people may notice dramatic and lasting gains right away.  For others shifts may be more subtle but are likely to deepen and strengthen on a subsequent round of SSP, often with new improvements appearing as well.

Sometimes we may not be sure if something happened on a first round of SSP.  Most often if those people later repeat the process they are likely to see a noticeable response on a subsquent round.  

RRP (Rest & Restore Protocol)

RRP is still quite new, and as a community we are continuing to learn from it. That said, what I’ve observed so far is that most people not only respond beautifully to it — they often love it so much that they want to stay on it long-term.

The people who benefit most from RRP tend to do well by continuing for an extended period, allowing their system to fully integrate and sustain the changes. That’s why when someone begins RRP with me, ongoing access for up to one year is included in my fee.

Even if they complete the full five hours of listening within the first few months, they’re encouraged to continue using it as needed throughout the year. As long as there hasn’t been a long gap in listening (which could require re-titration), additional time can easily be added at a much lower annual fee for those who wish to keep going.

Just as SSP is meant to open the door to further integration, I suspect RRP functions similarly — serving as a launching point for continued neuroplastic change rather than an endpoint.

iLs Focus System

The iLs Focus System is a longer-term process, designed to strengthen and reinforce neural pathways over time. It’s fine to take long breaks in between different iLs programs, but once a program is started, it’s best to:
  • Listen at least 3–5 hours per week, and
  • Avoid pausing for more than a few weeks at a time
This consistency supports the nervous system in “claiming” neuroplasticity, helping the improvements become lasting.

NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback


NeurOptimal® tends to produce long-lasting results because it helps the brain learn to self-regulate efficiently on its own. Once the brain learns these new patterns, they generally stay — but life happens. Stress, illness, grief, or trauma can all temporarily unsettle our nervous system.

In those moments, it’s not a setback — it’s simply the brain adapting to new challenges. A few booster sessions with NeurOptimal (or any of the other modalities you’ve responded well to) typically helps the system return to balance quickly.
In summary


These approaches are designed to work together in a flexible, responsive way

SSP and RRP help open the system; iLs and NeurOptimal help strengthen and stabilize it; and gentle body-based therapies like Brainspotting and Somatic Experiencing can deepen and integrate the shifts while also providing someone with tools they can use any time and anywhere. 

Healing isn’t linear — it’s iterative.

When life knocks the nervous system off course, the same tools that helped before will help again — usually even faster the next time.

How long before I see results?

It really depends — every brain and nervous system is unique.

With any of these approaches for some people, changes happen very quickly, sometimes within days. They may suddenly find themselves calmer, sleeping better, thinking more clearly, or feeling less reactive. For others, the process is more gradual, with subtle shifts that quietly build over time until one day they realize how much has changed.

In general, I tend to see the most rapid and dramatic shifts with SSP, and often with RRP as well — but that’s not a hard rule. Every system has its own rhythm and priorities. For example, while SSP is often considered the one that brings the biggest shifts, one of my own family members actually had their most dramatic improvements with iLs, which we typically expect to progress more subtly at first.

With SSP, I have innovative ways of delivering and titrating the process that I’ve developed through years of experience. These approaches help maximize the likelihood of more vivid improvements and, I believe of potentially targeting specific improvements appearing. If we don’t notice a response right away with SSP or RRP, I’ll “play” with the process — adjusting pacing, timing, or pairing it with other supports if someone is interested in that — until we start to see things shift.

Occasionally, despite our best efforts, the nervous system simply needs time, and in those cases, we gently watch and wait. But in my practice, the vast majority of SSP clients — and often those using RRP — begin to notice improvements within just a few days of starting.

With NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback, some people experience clear results within the first few sessions, while for others, the benefits accumulate over time as the brain learns new, more efficient patterns.

All of these approaches are designed to work with your nervous system. Whether your process unfolds quickly or gradually, it’s moving in the direction of greater regulation, flexibility, and ease.



Is SSP effective for misophonia?

A little-known fact is that an early name proposed for SSP was the “Sound Sensitivity Program.”

While we can’t guarantee that any one person will experience specific changes — or even that SSP will create improvements for everyone — I find that misophonia and sound sensitivities often improve significantly, and in many cases, they disappear completely.  I often see this within the first round of SSP Core but for some it can take multiple rounds of SSP.

For those who don’t notice a change the first time, other concerns such as anxiety or depression often improve instead — which, in turn, makes living with misophonia easier. With a second round of SSP Core, improvement in misophonia then becomes extremely likely.

It’s important to understand that SSP isn’t a treatment for misophonia or for any specific condition. What it is, is a process that helps the nervous system become better regulated. When that happens, a wide range of challenges — including sound sensitivities and emotional reactivity — have the potential to ease or resolve.

I work with a large number of clients who seek me out specifically for misophonia, and the results are often remarkable.

In fact, one of my family members — who noticed no changes at all after their first round of SSP Core in May 2019 — had their misophonia resolve completely by the second hour of listening on their second round that August. It has never returned.

You can read more about how SSP helps with misophonia and sound sensitivities in my blog article on misophonia.

Are there any risks to these approaches?

It’s understandable to wonder about this. These approaches work at a deep level with the nervous system, and when something reaches that depth, it can occasionally bring sensations or emotions to the surface. The good news is that, when delivered with awareness and care, all of these methods can be remarkably gentle and deeply restorative.

SSP (Safe and Sound Protocol)

Any dysregulation that appears during SSP is usually temporary and should stay mild when the pace is adjusted at the first signs of activation. Most rough experiences happen only when someone moves too fast — either because their provider is inexperienced or because they’re trying to “push through.” When SSP is carefully titrated, it can be profoundly calming, even for those who are highly sensitive.

If someone has tinnitus, it’s especially important to proceed gently. SSP can also sometimes reveal what’s already there just below the surface — for instance, tics that were likely due to emerge naturally in a child who is at the age that tic disorders tend to first appear — but SSP can not cause tics in someone who would not otherwise have them.

RRP (Rest & Restore Protocol)

RRP is newer, and we’re still learning from it. It brings awareness deeply into the body, where emotion and trauma may be stored, so it can sometimes bring powerful sensations to the surface. When titrated carefully, it can foster profound calm, emotional release, and a deep sense of inner safety.

​Just as with SSP, ​it is important to use caution with RRP if someone has tinnitus.   

NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback


NeurOptimal® tends to be extremely gentle. A small number of people may notice a temporary uptick in anxiety or mild insomnia at the start as the brain begins to reorganize, but these shifts usually settle quickly — and I’m particularly skilled at helping people through this phase so that it becomes an opportunity for deeper regulation.

iLs Focus Program

iLs is also very gentle. If dysregulation does arise, switching to the iLs Calming Program usually brings quick and soothing relief. Over time, iLs helps the system integrate changes more fully, reinforcing calm and stability.

For more complex nervous systems

People who are more complex — such as those with histories of trauma, brain injury, mold exposure, tinnitus, mast cell activation, or other chronic conditions — do best with a provider who has advanced skill and intuition in this work.

As one of Unyte’s top providers, I’m often sent clients who have had difficult experiences elsewhere so I can help them quickly stabilize and go on to have a safe, enjoyable process. I also train and mentor SSP and RRP providers internationally, teaching them how to recognize and respond to each unique nervous system with precision and compassion.

Over time, I’ve developed specialized tools to help settle activation quickly. One of these is my Mini Reset — a simple yet powerful technique that can calm dysregulation almost instantly while enhancing the positive changes that follow.

While I can’t promise that you’ll never have a challenging day — those moments are often already part of why people seek this work — I can say with confidence that, with the right pacing, support, and attuned guidance, your experience can be safe, empowering, and surprisingly gentle.

I am (or my family member is) in crisis and/or medically unstable - is SSP right for us?

If someone is feeling at the edge of what they can manage, or is dealing with complex medical challenges, it doesn’t necessarily mean SSP isn’t an option — but it does mean we need to start very carefully.

For most people, SSP or RRP an be a gentle and positive experience when it’s titrated to their specific nervous system. Many notice that they feel calmer, less reactive, and begin seeing improvements right away. But if someone is already in crisis, highly dysregulated, or medically unstable, we begin slowly — often by microdosing the music to gently “test the waters.”

Microdosing allows us to explore how your system responds to the music in tiny, manageable amounts that build safety rather than overwhelm. I’ve become known for helping even the most sensitive and complex individuals have safe, stable, and often surprisingly fast improvements through this approach.

If at any point SSP feels like too much, I always have my Mini Reset technique available — a powerful method that can settle dysregulation almost instantly while deepening the benefits that follow. And if your system would do better with a different focus, I can easily shift gears into another modality such as RRP, NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback, iLs Focus, or Somatic Experiencing®, depending on what’s most supportive at the time.

Gentle ways to build stability first
  • Somatic Experiencing® (SE) can help regulate the body and restore a sense of safety before, during, or after SSP. I offer online SE skills groups specifically for people preparing for, doing, or integrating SSP. Whether you’re working with me or another provider, you’re welcome to join.
  • Brainspotting (BSP) is another gentle yet powerful way to help release stored activation or emotion from the body without forcing anything to happen. It can be especially helpful for those who feel “stuck,” flooded, or unable to access calm. Even brief Brainspotting sessions can create noticeable shifts that make SSP or RRP easier and more effective later on.
  • SSP Connect can serve as a soft on-ramp, allowing the system to begin settling before moving into SSP Core.
  • NeurOptimal® Neurofeedback is a powerful, non-invasive way to support regulation. In homes with stress or conflict, having multiple family members use it often helps everyone feel calmer and more harmonious. I have rental systems available across Canada, and I can refer those in the U.S. or U.K. to trusted colleagues.
  • iLs can also be used before SSP. If any dysregulation appears, switching to the Calming Program is often deeply soothing and helps strengthen nervous system resilience.
My approach

My role is to help you or your family member find the right starting point for your system. I specialize in working with complex individuals — including those with trauma histories, brain injury, mold exposure, tinnitus, mast cell activation, and other chronic conditions — and am known for helping people who previously struggled with these methods to go on and have safe, enjoyable, and effective experiences.

Together, we find the safest and most supportive way forward — whether that’s beginning with microdosed SSP, neurofeedback, iLs, SE, or another gentle path. 

The goal is never to push; it’s to help your nervous system feel safe enough to heal.
Watch this short video about SSP that includes:

  • What a listening session may look like
  • What SSP music sounds like
  • How often or how fast you should listen
  • What to expect from your SSP provider
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